Yesterday night me and my friends went downtown to celebrate my BFF’s birthday. We all got pretty wasted and then this girl with huge boobs, lets me grab them and play with them. (It was always one of my dreams, but it didn’t turn me on whatsoever )  The whole night she keeps telling me how handsome I am and how if I was straight she would’ve dated me. Then later on, she asks me if I want to be the guy or the girl in the relationship. It kinda confused me cuz I mean, do you really need to fall into gender roles or any kind of norms? Like were in 2012, cant there be to masculine guys in a gay relationship? I mean im masculine and im looking for a masculine guy too? Will we really need to pick the girl in the relationship? Idk, I didnt get mad or anything cuz the girl is so sweet and like its not that big of a deal. But still, it made me think a lot…